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Convent-school innocence


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I don’t know what generation you belong to, but not too long ago, no kind of sex information was ever given to grade school children. Or later.

I had my first …

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  • basilionisisa

    for a middle class child, Wendy was just dumb. the average child as early as three years of age, even ‘poor’ ones, do not just take anything from strangers, let alone converse with them lengthily or ‘see’ something unusual and then NOT tell their parents. not sure if parents are to blame, surely they always give precautions. it is in the child sometimes. there are those who are too selfish or too self-indulgent to care about whatever happens to them as long as they are ‘given’ attention. harse words, but they are definitely DUMB.

    thanks for the article. it’s a good ‘topic’ for parents and perhaps classroom teachers.

  • Mux

    My opinion, when Wendy was already an adult, you should have not brought it up anymore. She obviously was not traumatized by it. However as an adult, after you jogged her memory, she was forced to remember. Now she knows what really happened. Now she would think all sorts of things. What if she was raped? What if she was abused? etc etc. A can of worms was opened when it was no longer necessary.

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