#MeToo and #HowIWillChange, the conversation we needed

It took a hashtag for the world to finally listen to sexual harassment and abuse victims. This is insane.

Following the exposé of Harvey Weinstein and the growing number of Hollywood actresses opening up about their run-ins with him, a hashtag has been born. #MeToo went viral on Twitter and Facebook after actress Alyssa Milano called women to share their experience with sexual assault using the hashtag.

A few days later, that single tweet has evolved into a full-blown campaign. Finally, men and women who were victims of sexual abuse were given a platform to share their experiences, to air it out without (or at least with a lesser chance of) someone doubting or questioning them. For once, they had a space where their confessions won’t be followed up with questions that could be summed up into, “What did you do to earn it?” “What did you do to bring this upon yourself?”

Welcome to the year of our Lord, 2017, where it takes a hashtag for society to finally acknowledge victims of sexual abuse.

The Facebook statuses and tweets came pouring at an alarming yet depressingly unsurprising rate. Left and right, many women and some men were sharing experiences that would go back as far as when they were children, the youngest that I’ve read being nine years old. Co-workers, friends, family—it seems that one didn’t have to look far to find someone to commiserate with about their own brush with a pervert or two.

A week later, and now everybody is wondering if this campaign will actually have any effect in the world—other than making all of us morbidly aware and depressed with the horrible state of our society. 

An article from WIRED suggests that the answer is no. Apparently according to a Yale assistant professor named Molly Crockett, as empowering the #MeToo campaign is, it is ultimately useless. Crockett’s new research on moral outrage in the digital age finds that all the campaign’s doing is exhausting everyone with outrage and therefore will never lead to any sort of real change.

And then, #HowIWillChange rose from the ashes of men like Harvey Weinstein, restoring my faith in humanity. This hashtag was made in direct response to the Me Too campaign, where men wrote in their status or tweets the little actions that they will do so they can change rape culture.

Here’s to hoping they’ll stick to these promises better than their New Year’s resolutions.

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