I asked him during his birthday: What principles do you live by? Here’s what he said

There were so many parties hosted for Tim Yap’s birthday. 

In all these celebrations and gatherings, there was one thing certain: that he is so deeply loved. Tim has been a friend for decades—not because of the parties (I never last long) but because of the media industry.

In saying that, our conversations were always about our lives and the work we do. I also noticed that Tim always kept a positive outlook even when it seemed impossible. Through the years, he has managed to stay relevant and ever-evolving.

So as I sat beside him, at a party thrown by Kifu Augousti and Patrick Coard, I messaged him one question that I felt could help a lot of us: What principles does he live by? Here are his answers.

1. Always keep your word.
2. Always say thank you.
3. Know when to stop, when to end things, and when not to proceed. (I am still learning this!)

4. Know when to say “no.” Sometimes your nos will make your yesses go further.
5. Nothing is impossible. Put a space between I’m and possible—I’m possible!
6. Your presence is a gift. So be present for your friends. Show up for their birthdays, special and even the not-so-special occasions. Be there for them.
7. Make everything extra special. When you commit, give it your all. No room for mediocrity. Go all in!

8. ME time is a must. Make time for quiet contemplation, solo travels, and communing with nature.
9. Do charity and contribute to a cause other than yourself. Volunteer, give yourself, and be of help to something you believe in. Sometimes it’s not all ME, but WE.
10. Protect your peace at all costs.

Story originally from RIA RECOMMENDS